Sunday Sports: Wrestling With Your Partner

Last weekend while I was at a girls' dessert party, a few--okay a ton--of my girlfriends told me about how they were "wrestling" with their boyfriends or husbands. This caught me totally off-guard. I had no idea what they meant by "wrestling." Of course, the first thing that popped into my head was my girlfriends giving their boyfriends the smack down WWF style in their living rooms...

It turns out the whole wrestling thing is much more playful than all that, although, everyone had a slightly different version to tell. My one friend said choking (of course, playful choking) was on the menu because they have a safe word. Their safe word is sesame seeds. Obviously their safe word is the BEST part about their wrestling because now all I can imagine is them yelling "sesame seeds!" at one another.

Another one of my friends said that it was more like playful slapping and rolling around and stuff. One said that sometimes you gotta kick a man's butt to show him who's boss (and I rather liked that notion.) My other friend said she always loses, but she liked it. What they could all agree on was that the wrestling was a great way to get out tension and lead up to foreplay.

Fast forward to a few days later, and I'm still focused on this wrestling.  I am getting together with my mom, who is a serial monogamist (and we love her for that!) So I ask her, "Mom, do you wrestle? Like with your boyfriends?" She very casually says, "Yes, especially in the beginning of the relationship." Oh. My. God! Even my mom is wrestling?!

I was floored. All this time...these some odd nine years (but who's counting?) I have not been wrestling with my husband. I felt like I was missing out. How come no one told me?!

What bothered me about it was also the fact that this wrestling thing is supposed to be playful... and I have trouble with violent play, I guess. Like, at the party, I said to my girlfriends, "What do you think the Dalai Llama would say about this?" Yes, I actually said that. But the truth is, maybe I have lost a little bit of my playful side in this relationship. And maybe that is a problem.

So I marched home--determined to wrestle with my husband. I approached him when he was sitting on the couch... and I did a little playful wrestling. I like a little playful wrestle-biting. And maybe a little foot-on-foot action. It was funny... a little awkward, at first perhaps.

You know what? It wasn't that hard. Now, I am no pro at this yet--it may take some time to master the art of the playful wrestle--but I feel like it's heading in a good direction. I felt more playful and that is a step in the right direction. And maybe it will lead to a release of pent up aggression that we never knew we needed!

So tell me, do you wrestle with your significant other??? What are your special wrestling techniques? 

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  1. We wrestle playfully....and hardly ever in a sexual way... sometimes the girls even join in and we all gang up on Matt. Its fun if its all of us or if its just the two of us...we even "wrestle" in the bathroom while brushing our teeth to get more of the sink... its a lighthearted playfulness that always puts us in a good mood.

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  2. I train in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. When I was still with my husband there were times play got to serious, lol. Certain holds and positioning however can come in handy when you want to 'take control' in the bedroom. ;)

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    1. My wife and I sometimes playwrestle, and I usually win. The exceptions is when she get her legs around my body and squeeze. Then I have to give in!

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    2. My wife also could pin me in a full body craddle or use those strong legs and thighs and wrap them around me and I no choice but to submit. If I could avoid those legs I could wrestle with her and her in a full body pin and pin her. We love wrestling.

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    3. My wife if she get me in a grapevine position more often then not I must submit the match to her. If I can get her in craddle or a full body pin I have a good chance of winning. The sex later in bed is great

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    4. My wife and I also wrestle. She gets me with her legs and thighs wrapped around me I must submit. Who cares we will make very passionate love in bed later

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    5. My wife and I wrestle anytime we can. She loves ❤️🤼‍♀️ to wrestle with each other. I will get her in a full body craddle pin and she will get me in sisscors hold and squeeze until I must submit. I feel her legs and thighs getting extremely tight and hard inside her jeans. I will pin her in a full body pin and we are getting extremely excited and aroused. We will come in our jeans. We wrestle into the leg crotch to crotch hold and we are trying to get each other to submit but we are extremely horny and hot and we just keep on grinding each other. Nobody win the match but we extremely satisfied that we have pleased each other. Later we wrestle nude on the bed and we have very passionate love ❤️ making session.

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    6. My wife and I were in the pool. Our yard is extremely private. We are groping each other and kissing. The next I pin my wife against the end of the pool. She has a swim dress with underwear on. I removed the underwear section and take off my swimsuit. We made passionate love in the pool. She takes off the rest of her swimsuit and we get out of the pool in the nude and wrestle with each other on the lawn. We both pinned each other a few times now and we made love on the grass. We love the summer, pool, wrestling and sex. Life is good

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    7. My wife and I wrestle are wrestling in the nude in our extremely private backyard. I just pin her in a full body craddle pin. After wrestling with each other with a lot of wrestling, grabbing, grappling, groping and many wrestling holds and positions she pins me with a grapevine position. I must submit. I put my penis in her and we have amazing sex. We get into the pool and just enjoy feeling and touching and groping with each other. We made love in the pool and enjoy our time together wrestling and and having great sex. Until next time

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    8. My wife and I love to wrestle with each other in our backyard. Our yard is very private. She loves wrestling outside because we have the room to start standing up. She is very good at getting me into a headlock and bringing me to the ground and mounting me into a grapevine hold. In case in came not over come her very extremely strong muscular legs and thighs. I will submit. We will wrestle again and I will pin her in a full body pin. At this point we will just get on top of each other and unzip our jeans and I will put my penis in her and have amazing sex with her.

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  3. My husband said something about women being so much weaker the other day when we looked at a tv show where a man wrestled a woman AND LOST! I said that it didn't look like men were that much stronger seeing this rather strong looking man loosing to an equally strong looking woman. I have been working out for a long time, three times a week while my husband plays golf and tennis, never touched a weight in his Life. I told him that I could probably take him in a wrestling match since my legs were so much stronger than his, something that was very obvious seeing our legs beside each others, mine in black pantyhose and his in shorts, like sticks. I took hold of his hands and he tried to get loose, we were both surprised that he couldn't move his arms at all. My grip was strong and he vinces when I squeezed his arms with my strong hands. I have been a gymnast as a kid and always been working out while my husband due to good genetics is slim and sinewy. I dragged him to the middle of the room and took him down and just pinned him! There was no way he could stop me. I think we both realized now that I was a lot stronger than him. We wrestled for about an hour and I Think I pinned him 15 times at least. I felt so strong and dominant, he was very quite but he didn't want to stop. I Think he was embarrassed being so outclaassed physically but also turned on being womanhandled, squeezed between my nylon clad thighs, pressed against my breasts and pinned helpless under my where I was siggint with his head between my thighs.

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    1. My wife and I were watching tv and it had oil wrestling in it. We decided to give it a try. I purchased clear plastic to cover our wrestling mats with it. We are nude and we rub oil all over each other. We start wrestling with each other. This is extremely hot and hard. It’s hard for to pin the other. We both managed a couple of pins. But we are having a ton of fun. Now we’re extremely excited and horny and I just get her on her back and I put my hard penis into her. We made very passionate love together. We do this oil wrestling many times over the years. If you have not done this, give it a try.

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    2. My wife told her best friend about wrestling each other with the oil. She told my wife it sounds like it fun and she wants to wrestle us with the oil. Come to our house in her usual tight jeans on. We go downstairs and the mats are ready to go. She strips to her underwear and bra. My wife does the same and I strip to just underwear. My and her wrestle each other and my wife pins her once and made her submit two times. I now wrestle her friend and I get her into a pins . This is extremely close physical contact wrestling with underwear on and no jeans. In our next match her bra comes off by accident. She keep on wrestling with me. I pin her again. She wants one last chance to wrestle with me. S
      We go again, as I am trying to pin her I slip on the oil and she is pinning me. She is also extremely excited and aroused and she is grinding on me. My wife yells to me to finish her. We dry hump each other so we are both satisfied. My wife is ok with the ending. Her friend smiles and told me she is good. And we will keep on wrestling with each other. Many good years of wrestling is ahead of us.

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    3. Over the years us three will wrestle with each a lot of times. We had a lot of good clean fun wrestling with each other. We also had a few oil wrestling matches also. Keep on wrestling folks , it’s fun

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    4. My wife friend wants to have a another oil wrestling 🤼‍♀️ Match we us. We have the mats ready. My wife and I are already in our underwear. This is a topless match. Her friend takes off her tight jeans and bra. We no warning she tackled my wife down. She pins her in a leg craddle. My wife tackled her and puts in a full body craddle. This one extremely hard and tight fought wrestling 🤼‍♀️ match. They are all over each other wrestling, grabbing, grappling, groping in a extremely rough and tuff match. You can not keep up who is on the top or bottom. My wife grabs her tits and roll her over into a full body pin for the win. Both of them are aroused. Her friend jumps on me and tackled me to the mat. In the process I have her tits in my hands. I let go and put my hands on her crotch and take her down into a full body pin for the win. I am still on her and she starts grinding on me. I look at my wife. She tells me go for it. I am grinding extremely hard on her and we both come at the same time. We wrestle again and I get her to submit to me in a grapevine position. I am getting her in a full body craddle but with all the oil I lose my grip and she is on top of me pinning me in a full body pin for the win. She does not let me up as she is once again grinding away on me. I am now grinding extremely hard and we both come once again. All three of us are ok with everything. We ask her friend to let us wrestle in private. My wife and I start wrestling with each other extremely hard, rough and tuff. I grab my wife by her tits and she moans with pleasure. I grab her ass and crotch and put into our leg crotch to crotch hold. We are extremely horny now. I lower her underwear and get my penis out and go inside of her. We have the most amazing sex. We call her friend back and we clean up both our jeans and tops on and we go upstairs for food and drinks. We all have fun and we will do this again.

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    5. Maybe my wife will read this post and agree to try oil wrestling. Wish me luck.

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    6. Show her the post and hope that she will give it a try. Good luck
      This is a lot of fun

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    7. Get your wife very excited and horny and before you enter her, you have a small bottle of oil hidden and you get her and yourself cover in oil. You fun wrestle her and then ram your penis into her for hot and passionate love. I think she will be changing her mind about oil wrestling and just fun wrestling with each other. Good luck 👍🤼‍♀️😊🤼‍♀️

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  4. Holy crap Anonymous, that is the hottest thing I have read in a while. I just struck a nerve and I guess I am closet dom. I've never been into wearing leather or dressling like some sort of a vampire - but the thought of pinning my man between my muscular thighs (I was a dancer and now run and lift weights - petite but strong legs) and making him say uncle, and then making him do other things...wow. Anyway, I read this and went right to the den where my husand was reading. I challenged him to an armwrestle, knowing i'd lose. But then we got to playfully wrestling and I trapped his head between my legs. It was electric. the best part though was how hard he got, even as he had to admit that I won. Clearly he loved it as much as me and we had the best sex ever!

    I think I found a new fetish.

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    1. Keep on wrestling with your husband. Keep using your strength in your legs and thighs to squeeze him and pin him down so he must submit. Show him you do know how to wrestle and win

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  5. Me and my wife wrestle all the time. I tought her how to wrestle and in those day none of us tought what was going to happen later. In the years she became more ambitious in wrestling and she always won. She is fast and strong. Now both of us knows, that she is faster and stronger than me, much stronger. About 60 % of her strength is enough to defeat me. When she grabs my wrists, she can push them behind me and I cant stop her, she can force my hands to pin me anytime. She was sporting more actively than me. She is lighter tahn me with about 25 kgs, but can defeat me anytime in wrestling, can bend my arms anywhere and I cant resist her. Now she enjoys that she can do whatever she wants to me, can pin me, tickle me as long as she wants, grapevine me and looking down at me, sitting on me andI cant stop her. She knows that and really likes to be stronger han me. In armwrestling, she can push my arm down on the roght and on the left to. Im not a weak guy, even I look sronger than her, but when we wrestle, her hiding feminine muscles jump out and are definitely stronger than mine.
    She plays with me and doing one hold after the other one, bending and grabbing me, forcing me to the next hold and I just trying to resist to her feminine and strong body, but it is in vain. She toys with me. I make videos, and it is unbelievable, how she can overpower me all the time. It is a shame, hw much weaker I am, who thought before that I am a strong guy. But now Iknow, that a fit women can overpower me easly and even she enjoys her dominance over me.
    all women likes to be stronger than men, and when a woman knows hat, she is stronger than the man, after than she will use her strenght to remind the man who is really the stronger one.
    She likes to grab my wists and strech my arms on the sides, putting me "on the cross" and I cant bend my arms to myself, or she pushing my arms over my head in the bead while i lay under her helplessly and I cant move. She knows, that I cant resist her strength and looking down at me with a winner face, that shows she enjoys this position.
    We tryed a couple times, if she can tie up my hands behind my back with a sock. She could do it both times while I was trying to resist but she did it.
    Its amazing how a woman can fight if she wants.
    I think a man has to be really stronger and faster if he wants to win against a woman.
    Women and girs are usually faster than men, and usually wifes are stronger if they are in the same height and weight like their husbands.
    If you dont beleive it, try it. You will be surprised, how strong the women are.

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    1. If both men and women are about the same height and weight I would give the advantage to the woman as they have more endurance and better leg and thighs strength. If the guy has wrestle on a team in school and she had not he has a advantage. It goes the other way also. If the woman is only wrestling to please her man than she will not win. My opinion may the best wrestler 🤼‍♀️ win. Go wrestle 🤼‍♀️ Snd enjoy yourself

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  6. Love being squeezed by my wife's strong thighs!

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    1. My wife and I wrestle all the time. We started wrestling with each other on our 4th date and never stopped. She won only a few times but after teaching and showing her hold and two years of wrestling with each other she now wins almost half of our matches. I think it’s great that we can wrestle each other evenly. We get each other into different wrestling holds and positions. Dating and wrestling with each other we both would get extremely excited and aroused and would dry hump each other after the match. After marriage we wrestle with each other and would pin them or make them submit to the other. We also got extremely excited and aroused and we would remove our jeans and wild crazy sex. Wrestling is fun. All couples should be wrestling with each other.

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    2. I love this post. I must show my wife and hope we can wrestle with each other. I have wrestle many girls and women but not my wife. She thinks it’s not lady like. Wish me luck. I think if she try’s wrestling she will like it.

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    3. My wife and I were making love one , and we were in the 69 position and we had a urge for us to wrestle each other in the 69 position. What a great wrestling match that was for both of us. Try it sometime and enjoy.

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    4. I read about you and your wife wrestling in the 69 position so I suggested that we try it. Holy cow was that a amazing wrestling match with had
      Thank you, thank you

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    5. If my wife gets me in grapevine, leg scissors or a full body leg scissors 9 out of 10 times I must submit. But if your wife wrestle with you who cares. You still win if you do it right . Have fun wrestling 🤼‍♀️ and enjoy the hot sex.

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    6. My wife and I are wrestling in the nude on the bed. I have already pin her in full craddle hold. She comes back and apply a full body pin and I tap out . We are both extremely horny but we want to keep wrestling. We are both wrestling extremely hard we each other. Rolling around grabbing, grappling and getting each other into many different wrestling holds and positions. I get her on her stomach and I ram my hard penis into from the backside. She moans with pleasure and delight and made her submit the match but we have truly amazing sex. We both come, she rolls me over and gets on top of me and she guides me into her again. We now do it one more time. Holy cow, hot wrestling and hot sex with your wife. Until our next match

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    7. My wife and I were out with our friends for the evening. She was in her lady wrangler jeans and tank top. We were touching and groping each other all night. We got home and got naked. I grew her on the bed and our extremely tight and rough wrestling was underway. We had each other in a bear hug and we were rolling around and grappling, grabbing, rubbing, groping and wrestling with each other extremely hard. She was on top of me going for a full body pin and I roll her over to get her in a full craddle hold and now she rolls me over in a full leg body sisscors and is applying extremely tight pressure and squeeze me tight. I can not get free and I tap out. We are both extremely aroused and horny but we keep on wrestling. I am trying to get her in a full body pin but she grabs my crotch and rolls me. I now grab her crotch and flip her off of me in I jump on top of her for the full body pin and she taps out. We are now extremely horny, horny. We will come at any time. We wrestle into our crotch to crotch hold and I ram my penis inside her and we explode into a very made passionate love making. We come but we stay together and I start ramming my penis even deeper into her and we again make passionate love. It’s great that my wife can do extremely rough and tuff wrestling and than make very passionate love. 🤼‍♀️🙏❤️

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    8. All men love being pinned and squeezed extremely tight by their wife, those legs 🦵 and thighs are dangerous weapons when used by women in wrestling 🤼‍♀️.
      Enjoyed it guys

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    9. Your wife think wrestling is unladylike. Do it in private not in front of people. Let her win, let her get you in a submission hold and you get hard and you both have amazing sex. Give it a try,

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    10. I love wrestling my wife. She has extremely strong muscular legs and thighs, and can get me into leg holds, grapevine and full body leg holds and I can not break free and must submit to her. I can pin her in leg cradle and full body cradle holds for a pin or full body pin and she will tap out. We will take our wrestling into the bedroom and remove our jeans and wrestle in the nude. We will wrestle into our crotch to crotch hold and see if one of us can get a submission before we are both extremely horny and we forget about wrestling and just have wild crazy sex with each other.

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  7. awesome article!! my ex wife and I wrestled many times over the years in our marriage. It was fun and erotic and good foreplay. Though I have to admit, in the beginning when she won it was a huge ego blow, but she got an early advantage on that first match and never let up in a very one sided match. I was shocked but she was not. Well I figured it was just luck and she got the advantage early on so we went at it a couple more times over the next couple of weeks. Though they were not as one sided, she would not submit and I learned that as the matches went on longer, I tired and weakened much faster and found myself pinned under her and exhausted. At this point she was calling herself the undefeated champ. I think my ego got the best of me and I avoided wrestling her for many years, but I couldn't get it out of my mind over the years and became infatuated with male vs female wrestling. about 10 years later, things were kind of rough for us and there started a struggle for us to maintain the marriage. Some how the wrestling thing came to forefront again and once again as a way to reignite the spark, she put on something sexy and we wrestled. I started off great and thought I had her, but with her flexibility and also using her legs for the first time in a match, she managed to bend her body, getting her legs over my shoulders and trapping my head in her thighs. Oh how it felt my head was going to cave in and I spent the next several minutes and a lot of energy trying to escape her leg hold, but shortly after I found myself trapped in them again. She turned that hold into sitting high on my chest, my left arm pinned painfully under her knee as it dug into my bicep, the other arm being held down as she held my wrist, a smooth strong thigh against my face with her womanhood near my chin as she looked down at me, grinning. Since that match, she learned that her legs are strong enough to sap my strength and make me spend a lot of energy trying to escape and she became very good at using her strong legs, so some of later matches were very one sided. This really did spark our sex life and relationship and we started wrestling more. unfortunately, she still wanted to pursue a different life path and we divorced but she maintained her undefeated record at 11-0-1 over the years. There was a draw , long match and an important phone call stopped us. We still talk a lot and are friends and occasionally the wrestling is mentioned as does her undefeated champion status is mentioned. who knows, since we are friends after the divorce, maybe we can wrestle again some time, I do miss it. David

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  8. My wife and I occasionally wrestle and its a lot of fun. One carzy night after having a few drinks with some friends my wife challenged her best friend to wrestling match. To my shock my wife lost badly. But It was probably the hottest thing that I have ever seen. Hopefully a rematch is in the making.

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  9. I'm a small woman (5'0") but very strong and solid. I've beaten several of my boyfriends and a few male co-workers over the years wrestling and arm-wrestling. I have a strong dominant side and I love the feeling of a larger man helpless and pinned beneath me. Most (not all) of the guys I've beaten admitted to getting an erotic thrill out of losing to me, and the sex afterwards is fantastic!!!

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    1. I agree with that. I love wrestling with women and they are on top controlling the match. Feeling their legs getting bigger and stronger inside of their jeans. They are just trying to pin you or make you submit with a grapevine position. What a feeling. If you can grapevine them that is also a turn on. Wrestling is fun.

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    2. All husbands should be wrestling with their wife. It’s a ton fun and the sex later is fantastic
      Go for it

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    3. My wife and I love wrestling. She wears jeans that shows her very strong legs and thighs and a great ass. I pinned her in our first match with a full body pin. She then gets me in a extremely tight grapevine position and is spreading my legs so far apart I submit the match. We are both extremely horny and hot we go to the bedroom and wrestle nude on the bed. We are in the leg crotch to crotch position and I put my extremely aroused and hard penis into her. She moans with pleasure and we make very passionate love with each other over and over again.

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    4. I must show my wife this post, maybe she would want to try this. I hope so, I got aroused just reading it. Wish me luck.

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    5. Wrestling 🤼‍♀️ with your wife and afterwards making passionate love, life is great. Do not believe me, try it. 🤼‍♀️❤️

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  10. Pixie, I have been seeing a woman who is 4'11, she is 51 I am 48. She told me from the beginning of meeting her that she has very strong legs that she got from her mother. We have played around a little and she kept saying she would squish my head like a grape with her legs. I just laughed it off at first but I have since felt the power in her legs. I now know how incredibly strong her legs are. Where I have upper body strength over her, I have on both occasions ended up losing because I was constantly fighting off her legs and finally she would end up trapping me and at that point I was sapped of energy there was no way I was getting out of her leg lock. Some guys just wont accept and admit that a woman can beat a man at wrestling and I use to be like that, but I have learned from a woman 8 inches shorter than me has made me submit 2 times now.

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    1. Wow, that's great you can accept a smaller woman can beat you. Did the two of you make love after wrestling? It's the best foreplay there is. I like to ride my BF after pinning him and flex my biceps, he starts kissing them, I always come!

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    2. My wife loves to wrestle with me and get me into a leg crotch to crotch position and make me submit. She also loves it when I can apply the leg crotch to crotch position on her. We are always extremely excited and aroused and great sex is the best ending

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    3. I met this woman at the senior center. After a few weeks she invited me over for dinner and wrestling. Our spouse both have passed away. She is 73 I am 75. She can really fill out a pair of jeans. We are both physically able to wrestle. Our first match I pinned her with a full body craddle. She gets me into a one leg craddle pin and she wins. She now gets me into a grapevine position and spreading my legs far apart and I submit to her. She holds the position and she feel my penis is hard and I hear her moan. We start wrestling again in a extremely tight and ruff and tuff wrestling match 🤼‍♀️. I after rolling around wrestling and grappling and grabbing with each other I pin her in a full body pin. I keep holding her down and we are both extremely excited and aroused. We grind each other and come inside our jeans. We go again and we wrestle into the leg crotch to crotch hold. It’s a draw but we keep on dry humping each other. We are now a couple and the wrestling and sex is extremely good. Until our match.

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    4. My girlfriend who is the lady I met at the senior center, we just got back from a group bus trip. We had fun time. Every chance we had to touch her ass inside those tight jeans I did. We even rub each other crotch to crotch in private. We are now extremely excited, horny and hot. We go inside her house and we are on the floor rolling around with each other grappling, grabbing, rubbing, grinding on each other. I pin her in a full body pin and she get me into a full body pin. We take off our jeans and hump each other over and over. I kiss her tonight and will see tomorrow

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    5. My girlfriend we are just sitting watching tv on a Saturday night. We did not want to go out. She as on her extremely tight jeans and tank top and no bra. I slip my hand under snd top and lift her top up. I kiss her one tit and rub the other one. She moans and puts me in a headlock and we are wrestling extremely rough and tuff and rolling around wrestling, grabbing grappling, groping, touching and putting each other into all different positions and holds. We are making a lot of wrestling 🤼‍♀️ holds on each other. I grab her crotch with one hand and put my other hand around her neck and I lift her into a full body pin and then lower her and get my two legs inside her legs and pin her in a full body pin. She taps out and wrestle me into a side leg hold and then into a one leg craddle for the pin. We take up and we tackled each other onto the floor all tangled together and we are wrestling extremely hard and rough with each other. We somehow have gotten ourselves into the crotch to crotch hold. We are both extremely hot and horny. We take off our jeans and just are grinding extremely hard on each other. We have both come in our underwear. We just lay together kissing and fondling each other. We dry hump each other again. We clean each other and put our clothes back on. We are some more tv and cuddle on the sofa.

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  11. yes we did..but what was even more incredible for me and I think even more so for her, while squeezing me she had incredible orgasms that would not stop. One night she was squezzing me with her thighs, me moaning in pain and her moaning in pleasure. After we stopped she wanted a cigarette, we went outside and she said, oh my gawd,, this wont stop. After that we went for round 2, she wanted me to hold her down.

    So I laid on top of her, wrapped my legs around hers, held her wrist above her head and pressed my upper body weight into hers. She said are you ready, I said yes you are not going anywhere. she twisted, and moved, struggled a little with her arms but more so with her legs. It took several minutes but my legs were just not strong enough to contain hers, she is right, her legs are very strong. At this point with her legs free from my grasp, her rolling and moving around was harder to maintain. she started putting more effort on not only freeing her arms, but planting her foot and using her leg strength to try and roll us over.

    of course at this point, my ego is getting shattered even more, I am struggling keeping her down and getting tired from the exherted effort to keep her pinned. The more ground she made the more she seemed to get energized and increase her efforts and t hen in one quick move, she planted her foot, pressed with all her leg power and same side arm, rolled us over and she was on top. She immediately intertwined her legs with mine and shoved them out, (I she was much taller it would have been very painful, but her short legs could only stretch me out so far). during all of this, I lost control of her one wrist, she grabbed mine and eventually she was able to free the other and held me t here.

    She then said ok its your turn, see if you can get out, smiling at me. we both knew I would not be able to. I gave some effort but I was worn out.

    Of course she wanted to see if the squeezing between her thighs would have the same reaction so she got off me and put me in another scissor hold, and yes same outcome with intense orgasms for her.

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    1. Do women have an advantage when scissoring?

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    2. Yes women can scissor men into submission while wrestling them
      My wife does it all the time to me

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    3. Yes women can scissors men into submission while wrestling with them. My wife can scissors me , put me into a grapevine position, get me into a crotch to crotch hold or wrap her legs and thighs around me and squeeze me until I submit. It all in good fun wrestling with each other. And the sex is amazing

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    4. It’s a ton of fun. You and your wife in jeans and wrestling with each other. You can see her muscles and thighs getting tight and hard and stretching her jeans. If you are smaller than her and she is larger and bigger than you (not fat , stronger) just be careful that she doesn’t hurt by accident while squeezing you into submission

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  12. I had this fetish since I can remember. Since we were going out, my wife would fulfill my fantasy once in a while. We setup a wrestling match that goes back and forth, with scissors and breast smothers, maybe some fake punches. Our struggle is as real as we can without hurting each other, but I shall always be the loser (that's my fetish). So she either locks me and starts masturbating while I struggle or I feign a knockout and she masturbates me while limp. It's very erotic for me. She does not get aroused by it, but sometimes I'm able to give back the favor.

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  13. Well, I've always been really small in stature for a guy(I'm currently only around 5'4) and not very strong either. So I was often getting picked on by girls who are taller and stronger, particularly in school. But more recently I have a female co-worker who is around 5'11 and very heavy. She likes to push me around and humiliate me by tackling me to the floor on my back and then sitting on my chest, pinning my arms under her legs. Once she gets me in this position there is nothing I can do about it, since I am completely trapped under her weight, I can't buck her off or wiggle out from underneath her(no matter how hard I try). This usually happens either during lunch our, or at the end of the work day(sometimes both). She'll usually keep me pinned down for 30 minutes to an hour, or longer, depending on the time of day. And sometimes she'll even invite some of her female friends around the office to watch, which only makes it more humiliating for me. I keep telling her that one day I'll manage to get the better of her. She usually laughs and says "keep dreaming!"

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  14. My wife and i wrestle quite a bit.She took jiu jitsu formany yrs so i usually end up like a human pretzle lol Or just imobilized and pinned down lol She love to win!

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  15. When we were more active sensually, my wife and I never wrestled, but she would hold me in a grapevine which got to me. Two girlfriends did wrestle and one was very competitive. I wish we had advanced further together sensually as she had a thing about being on top. Had we engaged together while wrestling, rather than after my head pops thinking about it. Another GF would get on top and inside while I tried to get out. Good for both of us and again, had we continued she was working to get stronger up top and could have held me down legitimately.

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  16. I've started wrestling my husband and we love it. I work out and he mainly doesn't and I wasn't totally surprised to find that my legs are stronger than his.

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  17. I realised that after marriage when I started wrestling my wife .she picked up the moves faster and would most of the times trap me in her thighs and I had no choice except to surrender .Gradually I realised she hated to loose and improved to an extent where I was always struggling to stay in a match .once we were fighting a submission match and after some time she started toying with me trapping me in her thighs and turning and twisting me . ultimately she applied a scissor hold and began pressing .I was getting choked and ultimately about to pass out when I tapped .Never knew a woman had so much power in her thighs but she was the better fighter and a deserving winner so I never felt ashamed loosing to her .

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  18. Happy Beat HusbandMay 23, 2017 at 2:42 AM

    I love that more people are writing about this. My wife played soccer in college and has really strong legs and core. I think even when we dated we knew she was a bit dominant and would play fight a bit but it was always a bit of an act. Flash forward to after our first kid was born and her getting back into shape. It seems the trainers now are all encouraging more heavy weights, especially for legs. Her ass has never looked better but the sicker part is that we play wrestled again and this time she caught me in her legs until I had to give. And we both loved it. Now she has been watching videos and knows a zillon ways to leg jail me. It ends with me giving her oral. Win win.

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  19. Ive wrestled my wife for many years and she being into fitness and bodybuilding for many years is a strong girl, but Ive always managed to beat her. Its just very hard for a girl to become stronger than a man but I agree its fun! And I really dont know how I would react if she managed to beat me one day :-) But I love her fit body and that she loves to carry muscles with pride!

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  20. My wife and I have been very physical - tickling, wrestling, etc., forever. After our third kid, she had a bit of post partum and a new strength training regime really ended that. Like the poster above, we both could not believe how strong she got, especially her legs (and she looks amazing) I am an athlete and workout a bit but mainly play sports with my older boys. So when we wrestle now, it is really a whole different ballgame and we both get really hot and bothered if she can catch me in hold. We are like teenagers again.

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  21. Feisty Little FianceAugust 8, 2017 at 10:22 AM

    I am a petite girl, only 5'1 and about 105 but I have always had really strong legs. My new trainer has me squatting and deadlifting and generally doing more strength. My fiance mocked it a bit but I think he really just wanted to get us wrestling. When we do, he always finds a way to get between my legs and have me squeeze him till he taps. The two of us were the most plain vanilla sex people until we got into this and now we realize that we are a bit s&m ish. We just get so freaking turned on from it and especially when I can "win". I found this because I was googling wrestling with your husband. I think you should write more on it if you still do it.

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  22. These comments are the hottest thread on the internet. My boyfriend and I wrestle all the time. He usually wins but I am getting better. He's a coder and just doesn't get to workout much. His arms are still weirdly strong but I think my legs are stronger than his now. We hump like rabbits after we wrestle

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  23. I love wrestling my man. I took up kettlebells last year with my trainer. My hubs assumed it was all girly stuff cuz they are pink but I use 35lb ones now. He came in once to my training session and had a hard time with the 20s. That night he joked that he could still kick my ass and we play wreslted. It was way tougher then he expected and he tired out quick. We had great sex after. He definitely liked it and I did too.

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  24. My and my husband wrestle all the time. It is our favorite foreplay. My legs are stronger than his and he loves it. We were shy about it for years, even with each other. I caught him once with his whole head between my thighs and got really dominant and made him say uncle (i guess I should have said aunt"). I realized it was making me crazy horny and that despite being held down and totally stuck, he was sporting a major you know what. From then on we just went for it. I also do more heavy lifting. I guess it is positive reinforcement. The upside is that the weightlifting - lots of lunges, squats, jumps..has made me feel amazing and my body has never looked better. I always tried to lose weight. I am a naturally heavy-ish sort of frame. Now my ass gets compliments from hardhats and I rock a bikini with pride. I think a lot of it comes from wrestling. I googled husband wife wrestling and found this and all the comments and had to chime in.

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  25. The comments on this thread are the hottest thread on the Internet!

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    1. Need more people to tell about their experience wrestling with a boyfriend or husband. Please keep posting

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    2. My girlfriend and I are both 17 years older. I have never wrestle a girl and she has never wrestle a boy. She just asked me to wrestle her. Should I wrestle her or not??

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    3. Yes, you should wrestle her. Just set rules ahead of time. Than just wrestle with each other. I think you will like it and will keep on wrestling each other
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  26. My wife and I have just started to occasionally wrestle. It'd be fair to say we are both still a bit shy about it. Last time I was surprised about how determined she was to win. She wrapped legs around me and I couldn't break free. What sticks in my mind is how she kept smiling at me while I struggled. She eventually rolled me onto my back, tangled my legs in hers, held down my wrists and pinned my chest under hers. I probably could have resisted her more but I've never had so much fun losing a contest

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  27. My fiance wanted to play wrestle with me when we were dating. He had no idea how strong my legs are and even my arms. I am petite but I workout more than him and he just has no skills. I grew up with boys and love it. Flash to our first time messing around when I actually turned it on and had him pinned. I didn't know if he'd hate it or love but looking at his shorts gave me all the answer. Now its just our thing. He loses on purpose or at least lets me get him into positions he can't get out of. I love the feeling of being powerful and in charge of him. I'm not some type of dominatrix otherwise. Great topic!

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    1. That is so hot! I have no problem if my woman wins. The struggle is what I love

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    2. I am a big girl 5’9” and 275 lbs
      We were at a picnic a group of us and some guy asked if I wrestle and would I like to wrestle him. I have wrestle with other girls and boys. Won and loss. He was 6’2” and only 150 lbs. plus 125 lbs my advantage. We start circling each other and I get in a headlock and bring him to the ground. We grabs me in a bear hug and we are rolling around wrestling with each other grappling, grabbing, rubbing, groping and we are being extremely rough and tuff with each other. Many pins and holds are being tried by both of us. I finally get onto top of him and pin him. I feel his hard penis inside his jeans and my jeans. He softly ask if we could wrestle longer so he could come and I quickly put him in a crotch to crotch hold and applied extreme pressure on his crotch so he came and so did I. I wrestle 10 horny boys that day pinned them all and they all came inside their jeans, and so did I, I have never wrestle that many different guys in the same day again. It was fun

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  28. My husband and I started wrestling while we were still dating and we never stopped. It is probably the only foreplay we still do! We went to an event where guys and girls wrestle each other in a playful way and it is the only "kinky" thing we've ever really done that involved other people. There was no sex there but the whole thing was sexually charged and we went home really hot and bothered. Lovin this thread.

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    1. My wife and I wrestle with her best friend and her husband. No sex just four people wrestling with each to see who was the best at wrestling. Many fun nights. At the end of the night we would have amazing sex with our own husband. We did this for many years.

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    2. My wife and I attended a event where you could wrestle each other or you could ask another couple if they would wrestle with you. No sex, no inappropriate touching or grabbing or grinding on each other. This was just fun wrestling with the opposite sex. Most guys wore jeans or jogging pants, the gals mostly wore jeans, leggings or yoga pants. We are had fun wrestling matches and no one did anything wrong, I am hoping they will do another of these wrestling nights. My wife and I had fun. We wrestle with each other in the nude on our bed and than had extremely amazing sex with each other.

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    3. My wife and I would love wrestling in a event like that. How did you find. Please respond with more information. Thank you

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  29. This is freaking sexy. All your columns on married love life are - can you go back to adding some of them in the mix? Maybe do an update on this one.

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  30. my hubs and I play wrestle more than we kiss or do anything else for foreplay.

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  31. My boo and I started wrestling at some point after we got married. I took a self defense class and was messing around and we had fun. He's a real "guys guy" and until then, was too shy, I guess, to act submissive in the bedroom. It didn't happen right away but when we play wrestled it was obvious he would always find a way to lose. I'm athletic but I had a kid and wasn't excatly in the best shape when we started, so it was just clear he was playing around. It became a good motivator for me to workout more though and get stronger, so it has been a win win. Sex is better and I have never been stronger in my life. My legs and abs are actually stronger than his now and I def have way more stamina. Also, and this is one of the reasons I am writing this anonymously - when we dated and were first married, oral was a one way street. For me it was rarer than an eclipse. When we started wrestling though and I would get him pinned or get him in a hold, he would WANT to "service" me. He actually begs for it. This is the best part of the whole game - i don't think too many wives have a man going down on them as much as I get it. I don't know if every guy would be into this and maybe a lot are much more dom and would play wrestle and then want to win...but I know I am a lucky girl!! Thanks for having the mom balls to write about this topic! - BAD ASS WRESTLING MOMMA

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  32. My man is a wrestler and I LOVE approaching him and calling him out by his wrestling gimic is my FAVORITE. Tossing out a challenge and having him toss me around while I fight to get a hold is so much fun and so so stress relieving

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  33. I am just a dude who gets turned on by wrestling girls and reading the replies to this blog post are such a turn on. I hope i get to marry a chick who is into it as much as everyone here.

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  34. I started wrestling around with my first g/f almost 40 yrs ago as fun and foreplay. Just kidding around. After we got engaged a couple of yrs later, she became more aggressive, wanting to be rougher and putting terms and conditions on handicapping matches, falls and what the winner got or the loser had to do. It began to get pretty intense. After we broke up though, Then I began dating my current wife, who had known us both VERY well before we began dating and knew of my fiancé and mine's "games". What I didn't realize, was she was FAR more liberal and much more on the "women's lib" side of things and therefore not willing to give in up in business, sex, or wrestling. She started the matches that were NHB long before there was such a term. In this forum, I can't politely get into what that means, except to say if there is any (yes, ANY) body area reachable to attack or a method to induce pain to force submission she thought as a woman trying to either secure or about to lose a billion dollars personally, that she were going to have to pay out as a personal escort. No, she hasn't won many multiple fall matches. But, she has won dozens of falls and single fall matches. For men who say women can't win, they have never had a woman their size, end up twice their size, trap them and attack ALL personal areas in a nude NHB with 1/2-1 inch razor sharp nails. Her motto is "All's fair in love and war, especially for us women, If you say you are a man, take it like a man, come back like a man." Our only concession is, we have to keep our jobs. So, no blows to the face or anywhere that can leave bruises that might be reported by co-workers. It does make for dynamic make up sex, even 35 years later.

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    1. P again (for clarification)September 16, 2018 at 3:20 PM

      Let me slightly edit the above. When we met, I was over 6' but just under 120 lbs, she was 5' 8", 175 strong lbs. So, she was pretty easy to manage, especially in the "normal" everyday foreplay to rough-housing wrestling. But, I have grown to 150-170 and her everywhere from 225 to 295. There have been times she has doubled me in our marriage and times we weren't that far apart. But, I can assure you, once a woman decides to go "dirty" to win, everything is on the table. She may start three days early messing with you, "accidentally" having "emergency" phone calls from friends or relatives during intimacy that leave you with "blue". Later, something comes up with "work" or "a meeting with teachers I forgot we need to attend" that leaves them "bluer and worse". Then, you think you are finally going to get a release and she squeezes hard, jumps up, places a foot on them and says, "Guess what I'm in the mood to do tonight and why? Get up and let's go for it!" But, you are already at a massive disadvantage and you got to deal with happy wife, happy life. With my wife, if I don't go for the win as hard as she does, she won't let me say, "I give" or tap out, and she just gets more creative and more brutal until she gets a KO or me to fight back. She won't tolerate a submissive man or being dominant. She wants to earn it. But, I wish this was a different forum. The things that have been used or done to win would make most of you say, "BS, never happened", the guys say, "What a wuss, I would never do that with a woman", the gals laughing their butts off at a guy getting "what he deserves", and most guys grabbing their fronts and back-ends saying, "Wait, that isn't fair." But, ask women who have gone through a hysterectomy or menopause. Most feel pretty much like my wife. Her philosophy is, "I had to give up my plumbing. Why should I be worried about yours? We're done having kids. Why should I care about those parts? As long as he can still rise to the occasion, it's all good." Other than that, she could care less what she does to win, PERIOD...EVER! So, wherever your imagination just went, unfortunately, I've probably been through it in 35 years with her, especially the last 10-15. I have tried to give as much as I have given. But, believe me, women are not built with the same sensitivities or areas. Hopefully, that clarifies what I meant.

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  35. Happy Dad - my wife stopped working a few years back to be with the kids and a nice benefit to that was her being able to workout in the afternoons. At 36 with 2 kids, she is in better shape than when we met in our 20s. She looks great but it didnt really occur to me that she's actually also gotten really strong. We had a weekend away from the kids and were working out in the hotel gym and it became obvious that her legs are flat out stronger than mine. Her upper body is about the same and she has way more endurance. I wouldn't admit this but I joked about it and that led to us play wrestling. She smoked me. And I loved it. Now we do it all the time.

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  36. ok I'm glad other guys have lost to their wives too. I still feel a little embarrased by it, but she works out a ton and is very strong. I thought I would win if I tried my hardest, but when she was sitting on me holding my arms down there was nothing I could do. I might challenge her again because I think I just made a mistake in being too aggressive and underestimating her quickness and strength. next time I'll be a little smarter and maybe she'll assume she's going to win again and make a mistake. anyways, thanks for sharing your experiences everyone and making me realize I'm not the only guy whose gotten pinned by his wife :)

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  37. There is no way my wife could take me. We often wrestle where i use one hand. It is a lot of fun though and she loves the turn on in losing. Seems like a lot of people here are the opposite, liking a dominant/winning wife, so wanted to share the other persepactive.

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  38. Have been wrestling with my wife since she was my girlfriend +40 years now. We are regular gym rats and she is much stronger than when we were married, but then, so am I. She's a grandma that looks as good as any 30 yo in a bikini. :) I am stronger than she, but with some luck and skill, she can get a submission. The wrestling now ranges from playful to furious attempts to submit me. These days, marital relations and wrestling seem to often be intertwined.

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  39. My wife worksout with weights, which is what all her friends seem to do and she is really strong, especially her legs. When we wrestle she finds ways to catch me in them and half the times i need to give up. it's a lose-win situation for me though!!

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  40. Several years ago when I was dating my now wife we use to wrestle all of the time. this all started out as foreplay for us. both of us where in great shape. she was 5'8" 145lbs, I was 6'1" 175. we actually purchased wrestling mats and had them set up in a spare room in our house. we would always wrestle barefoot and normally wore bathing suits. I must say she could actually make me submit at times, some of our matches got to be very competitive where both of us where sweating. We had a lot of close friends/couples and use to entertain often mainly around holidays and some great summer parties by our pool. never forget the one July 4th party. must have had 30 or so friends over, lots of drinking and carrying on in the pool.one of my buddies(phil) was getting a little carried away with my wife in the pool, splashing water in her face, dunking her under water, just mainly goofing around. I could see she was starting to get pissed off. my wife told Phil if you don't stop I'm going to kick your in front of everyone here. well Phil being Phil swam up to her in the pool and apologize said he would stop. then he splashed more water in her face. and then proceeded to get out of the pool. My wife followed him out of the pool and then it started. my buddy Phil is no match for my wife, at roughly 5"11 150lbs, on the thin side. my wife walked over to me and told me she is going to kick Phils drunk ass, I told her I would give her 100 cash right now if she did it. now keep in mind my wife was in a purple French cut bikini, she looked hot. but i was really interested to see her wrestle a guy close to her size. next thing you no my wife walks up to Phil and said ok tough guy lets see what you got now. Phil said what? lets wrestle right here on the lawn. Phil was afraid he would hurt my wife. I walk over and said I would be the referee. next thing you no every one at the party made a circle around Phil and my wife. my wife started egging him on, calling him a skinny little pussy, then she tackled him the grass they where rolling around for a bite until my wife wound up on top. she then put her foot in Phil's face and told him to kiss her foot. she then forced him to suck her toes. he was squirming under her body, but he could not budge her. This was actually turning me on, seeing my wife do this to Phil. after a few minutes my wife got up then lifted Phil up and carried him over to the pool and threw him in.

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  41. My boyfriends begs me to wrestle him and trap him with my thighs

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    1. My wife and I love to wrestle each other. Our favorite place is on the floor where have more to wrestle. This night she has on a my favorite pair of jeans that I like to wrestle her in. We are on the floor rolling around and grappling with each other and I get her in a leg craddle for the pin. We go again and after a lot of tuff wrestling I get her in a full body pin for the win. We are both extremely aroused so we go again and after wrestling with each other very hard she get me into a grapevine hold and squeeze me extremely tight and hard and I must submit to her. We watched the news and go to bed. As we are getting undressed and ready for bed we are messing around with each other. We now have our jeans off and our shirts and I noticed a small hole in her underwear and I go down on her and she moans with pleasure and puts me in a extremely tight hold with her thighs. I moan with pleasure myself and we get into the 69 position and have off the wall sex. I am lucky to have her for a wife.

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    2. My wife and I are like you and you and your wife. We also have wrestle while dating and in our marriage. We are at a bbq with our friends at their house. My wife and I just got horny from playfully touching and grabbing each sitting in the lawn chairs. Next thing we are on the ground wrestling with each other and going at it extremely hard. I pinned her and she comes back and pins me. The husband try’s to grab us wife to wrestle him and she pulls away . My wife get up and said I will wrestle with you. Is wife said that she would wrestle with me. Now we are all wrestling with the other person spouse. We have a great time wrestling. Than it man vs man and woman vs woman and we are having a blast. No sex is allowed only wrestling. This leads to many years of wrestling with each other.

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    3. Wow, sounds like fun
      I just find this site by accident. I read the posts about other couples are wrestling with each other and the sex they are having. I show my the site. We also wrestle and have good sec but it seems like we could get better at it. We do some internet search and asked some of our friends who also wrestle each other. We the information we now start wrestling with new holds and positions and added positions to our sex life and good is now great. Thank you
      Keep posting, we like what we are seeing

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  42. my wrestling with girls/women started when i was around 13, I was working out and getting that cocky young boy attitude. My sister decided it was time to put me in my place and instigated a wrestling match to where she completely dominated me busting my male ego. She continued making fun of me and challenging me and i accepted in hopes of defeating her, i never did. Fast forward many years engaged to my ex wife and we got into a wrestling match where she started off strong and never let up, pinning me. for the next several months i challenged her more and more wanting that first win against her. my male ego could not take it, she was at the time 5'3 120lbs, where i was 5'6 165 so instead of accepting my constant defeats by her smaller body, I avoided getting into wrestling matches with her and it just kind of went away. However, i was infatuated with mixed gender wrestling from then on.

    Many years later, me in my later 30s ex wife in her mid 30s, 2 kids and both of us working out to get back in shape, she brought up our wrestling we did long ago and how she is the undefeated champion. We started wrestling again. At this point i am 5'6 180lbs, but more muscle from recent working out, ex wife was 5'3 about 140, working out like a possessed woman. the first match after all those years, she dominated me worse than ever and we found we both liked it. It also sparked my submissive nature and her dominant nature so our wrestling continued and she owned every match. I then learned to accept she is a better athlete and stronger in many areas of her body.

    After Divorced from my first wife, i dated this woman who is 4'11 but always stated hwo strong her legs are. I found out, and WOW are they strong, and she was 52 at the time yet did not work out at all.

    Finally, i am remarried, current wife played alot of soccer in her youth and her legs are still extremely strong, i found that out a few times now.

    I suspect that most women have very strong legs especially when it comes to squeezing someone/thing. in addition, alot of women tend to be quicker, higher endurance and stamina, Definitely more flexible which i believe is very important factor in wrestling a woman. Women also seem to have a stronger desire and drive to win, and less willing to submit which makes the matches longer resulting in a tired male who gets weakened down.

    So, for me its not that surprising that there are so many women out there kicking some buts against their husbands/bfs.



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  43. I played soccer through college and my husband has no chance if I get my legs tight around him. I found this blog because I was looking for other people that wrestle their husbands. Through play wrestling, we realized that I am slightly dom and he is slightly sub. I also found out how attracted he is to me being strong and looking fit. Not skinny really, just really toned. It's a liberating feeling to workout to get strong and in the end both he and i think i look better for it. And a lot of that came from wrestling games. So thanks for this post.

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    1. my wife played soccer as well and wow are her legs strong! only a couple of times has she trapped my head in her thighs, no way out and she said she was barely applying any pressure. rather amazing!

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    2. My wife used to in high school for four years. We started dating after high school she would pin me or make me submit to 8-10 matches. I could win only 2-10. My wrestling experience was with boys and girls in the neighborhood or just a few weeks a year in gym class. This does not matter to me. Wrestling with my is still fun and our sec life is great

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    3. I have a somewhat same experience. I met and started dating a girl in freshman year of college. She had wrestle 2 years of jr high school and 4 years of high school. Now at college in FL she joined the girls wrestling club. The school did not allow girls on the boys team and they did not have a girls team. She invited me to watch the girls wrestling in a practice session. They wore bathing suits, leggings, shorts, sweatpants and jeans. These girls knew how to wrestle and were very good. Has we kept on dating I asked her to wrestle with me. The only experience I have is wrestling girls and boys in my neighborhood and 4 weeks a year in gym class. I am 5’11” and she is 5’7”. I am 110 and she is 140.
      We wrestle each other for 4 years .she wins 8 of 10 and I win only 2 of 10. She can pin me or just put me into extremely tight submission holds. I still enjoy our matches. We do both always get extremely excited and aroused with our rough and tuff wrestling matches. We always dry hump each other after our wrestling. After graduation we lands a job in the Midwest and I get an offer on the west coast. We remain friends and after we are married to other people we keep up our friendship. My wife and I will visit her and her husband and the next year her and her husband will come visit us on the west coast. Never wrestle with each other ever again but we still are good friends.

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  44. Hi from quarantine land. I am another wife and mom who wants to thank you for this old post. Like SoccerMom (hi!) i found strength training more recently (i am 45 and never looked or felt better) and my and hubs love it. Living at home also has him seeing how strong i really am. We workout together and he can't do half of what i can for cardio, legs and abs I can even do more pullups then him but his arms are just bigger and stronger. Wrestling plays to my strenghts and we both found that we love it. Especially during quarantine, its a way to get silly, get some aggression out and then just...get some. Also like one of the other p osters in this great thread wrote, i guess it has helped us realize that, at least in the bedroom, we both like when i am in charge. Happy quarantining and stay safe every one.

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    1. Hi Wifey, I suspect alot of this is going on during quarantine time. Not much else to do, a way to stay in shape and a lot of out shape men are learning their wives are stronger. I work out with my wife as well, she is much more dedicated to it than I am. She is doing some form of workout daily where i am doing 3-4 days a week, plus she does cardio. we already know her legs are stronger than mine, and though she is working out with less weights, her muscles are harder than mine and if there is ever any kind of struggle, she gets the best of me!

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  45. Hey all - i fouund this thread trying to find other people who like this too. look at malevsfemale.org if you want to find others but i also like this thread because it so spontaneous. i am a husband who is submissive a bit in the bedroom. i never was into normal kink stuff though but always liked play wrestling with girlfriends and with my fiance. now that we have been married a few years we talk more openly and i just flat out told her that this is what i need to do more, to get turned on. she was like - no problem, bitch but when you lose, you will service me however i want. so i am between her legs more and we're both fine with that! the big surprise is when we talked about it she also started looking up other moves and now uses her arms to tap me out too. she's small but very strong from always doing sports and exercise, so if she gets a hold right, its lights or tap out. being in the south, i can't talk about this with my buds, too much macho ness but i like forums like this. You'll keep it goin,

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  48. Wow, what a thread.. I always wrestle my wife and she often wins by submission although I am more athletic and have a 30kg advantage! However can do nothing when her thighs are around my neck

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  49. Last night I had a wrestling match with my wife. In 2 minutes she put me in a headscissors, she obliged me to give up and didn't release until I admitted she's the boss.
    In the 2nd round, in 30 seconds I found myself thrown to ground and asked to kiss her feet !
    Then she decided to have a 3rd round and again I was thrown in 30 secs, had to kiss her feet, then calf then thigh. It ended with her ***** rubbed to my face..

    I really didn't know what was going on, we usually wrestle but she doesn't win that easy!!
    I am much more muscular and have an advantage of around 30 kgs..

    Then we had a 4th round, she won easily again by head scissoring me until I gave up and promised not to ask for a wrestling match before 1 month...

    She enjoys winning and dominating.

    Husbands should never be shy of losing to their wives, they should proud of them.

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  50. Elie, my ex wife and I wrestled many times over the years, never once did i win. The first couple of times submitting to her shocked me, damaged my male ego, but eventually I learned to accept that she was a better athlete and her advantages in wrestling out weighed my larger size and upper body strength.
    I remember one match, i came out fast and strong, had her on her back and was telling her to submit to me, she refused, i laughed and said, admit it, I finally won one so submit. then a leg of hers came up and over my shoulder, I said, your just making it worse. Then quick as lightning and before i knew what was going on, her other leg was over my shoulder her strong thighs clamped together and she slammed me to the side. Now it was her turn to trash talk, but she backed it up. She was furious and I damn near got myself knocked out from her head scissor, which she turned into her sitting on me, arms pinned under her, her crotch on my chin as she at up looking down in my face with that arrogant, domineering smirk. Bottom line, her flexibility, lower body strength, stamina and endurance was too much for me. That match broke me and our marriage was completely changed from that point.

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    1. What do you mean by your last sentence? How did your marriage change?

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    2. Why? What happened shouldn't have broken your marriage! Nothing wrong if your wife is stronger in wrestling. Nowadays it is very normal that women can beat men in wrestling, especially that they have higher stamina and endurance and more flexibility in their lower body. My ex girlfriend used to win most of the times when we wrestle..

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    3. Tomorrow we will have a rematch, I hope I will be able to do better

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    4. it didnt break the marriage, the match broke me and also our marriage changed (for the better) from that point on, she was in charge, we both knew it.

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  51. I'm stronger than my wife and win if we wrestle for fun so we do things to make the matches fair. I will lift weights very heavy or do a ton of push-ups to get tired out and we will then wrestle for foreplay. Once she gets the upper hand and I'm aroused its all over and she dominates the match. We both love the role reversal and its a big turn on for we to be pinned by her for real.

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  62. Great post - I wrestle with my husband all the time!

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  63. My boyfriend and I are both creative graphic artists and spent our early twenties in a very sedentary way. We like to vape, watch netflix, music and our biggest workout might have been a bikeride. I got dragged to a kickboxing class by my bestie and found that it was the best mental stimulant. That got me to running and then lifting. Short version - the bf wants none of it. He was joking about me getting stronger and we started wrestling around. It was much closer than I thought - a girl gets cocky and men really do have the advantage. He can't handle me though and i'm writing this all here b/c what we found is that he gets sooo turned on by it. I like getting the blood going and relaly, just turning him on. So wrestling and fighting in a fun way is what we do now to get us going.

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  64. I wrestle with my wife. Her legs are like steel and I love it

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  65. I have three kids and am 46. Our foreplay over the years was reduced to "want to bang?" We got turned on to play wrestling recently and I love it!! We both got pretty out of shape over the years. We have good metabolisms and you wouldn't know it but we just had low energy. For me, more than my husband, this also meant much lower sex drive. Or maybe its just a getting old thing. I started working with a trainer last year and got into lifting and some boxing. My body hasn't looked this good since college and I really got pretty strong. That's when we started joking around about who was stronger and got into this. Like a lot of women in the comments here, my legs especially are just stronger than my man's and we both get turned on when I squeeze him. Not too many forums for this, though we fonud some good video sites (so we're not all alone!) Thanks for the column.

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  66. Maybe there is a "mom workout" going around b/c i also got turned onto strength training by my trainer and it also has me looking and feeling really good and - and like others, my husband seems turned on not just by me being so lean but also by me just being really strong. We play wrestle (we never used to) and we both love it. I'm 53 btw (almost a grandma) - and I can squat 200 pounds! He's 57 now and wouldn't even try that. Neither of us try to really "win" when we wrestle and he's still got strong upper body from years of work and just being a guy but wrestling has really made our sex life fun again. We feel like kids.

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  67. That is awesome fit and fifty! do you think you will ever have competitive matches where you both are trying and want to win? I am 56, my wife is 50, we work out together, her legs are by far stronger than mine but like your husband my upper body is stronger than her upper body. She also does alot more cardio than I do, so i do tire out before she will. Most of our wrestling has been us goofing around and she will tell me to stop, if i dont she traps my head in her thighs of which i have never been able to escape. For some reason that makes her laugh so the entire time she is keeping me under control with just her legs she is laughing hysterically. It amazes me how much strength are in her legs! Love to hear more about your play matches.

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    1. We wouldn't go hard enough to make it not fun but i won't say that I am above biting or grabbing some sensitive areas! We leg wrestle and do other contests and I can easily win with my legs. I've been trying to get my arms stronger. He loves it and its really been empowering. I get compliments from strangers so the whole cycle is a good one.

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  68. My wife loves to play wrestle and then have me get handsy when she loses. It's a way to get dominated but not have all of the S&M toys and things that creep her out a bit.

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  69. Anonymous - we are the opposite, I like to lose and then get a bit dominated by my wife. It used to be more pretend then not (the losing) but as she got more turned on by it, she started watching some videos and working out more and she got pretty good. We're never really fully trying but if she gets me in some holds I am stuck. Then she teases me playfully and makes me do things, like kiss her fee, say who won and then just service her a bit. We love it.

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  70. I'm on with the "mom workout" posters! I've always had a good metabolism but if I do add weight, it's around my legs and bum. In my late 40s I was introduced to more strength training. My lower body shape really changed. I also sleep better and feel better but also, am just amazed at how strong my legs and hips are. My husband is too and when I drag him to the garage to workout with me, he literally can't control himself from being turned on. This led to us play wrestling and now its part of what we do. He loves ending up caught in a leg lock and the feeling of being trapped. Nice to find a thread with similar experiences.

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  71. This thread is so hot. I wrestle with my husband. I am strong but not like most of the women here. My husband has his way with me easily but something about the struggle makes it more fun. I can win a round or two though if i get dirty and grab his balls...

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  72. My girlfriends have always been athletes. I'm in college and now date a soccer player. I used to date a cheerleader I'm a computer guy but the athletic girls like me. I won't tell my secret why. The thing is they can kick my ass. I love it. I find girls that love it. There's definitely a subculture of some girls that like physically pinning their guys and getting turned on. I like being trapped in their legs or held down under them. Maybe if I started to workout or took some martial arts classes i could start to win but I don't want to. This is a good forum and i am happy to see more people into it. Seems like a lot of husbands and wives...so I am hopeful that i will find a strong, beautiful wife who can wrestle me down for years.

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  73. Jamie from Connecticut

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  74. My husband loves my strong legs and asks me to headscissor him whenever we are intimate.

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  75. My boyfriend also loves my strong legs. I squat and lunge heavy weight and you wouldn't know how strong i am, they just look toned. When we wrestle though or just f%%%k, he wants to be squeezed by my "pythons" as he calls them. I will cum so quickly if i squeeze harder that I have to wait sometimes, so i can finish first. This is a fun thread because i don't see this fetish talked about too much anywyere else. Thanks

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  76. I meant to say "he will come so quickly"! I wish I could get off just from that but it does get me pretty hot and seeing him get so hot gets me hot

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  77. my husband and I wrestle. he gets off on me trapping him with my legs. I knew he was turned on by being a bit dominated even when we dated because he'd always want to work out together but specifically loved it when I was stronger than him at anything. i'm petite but very strong and he always asks me to flex my arms or legs when we're naked.

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  78. Some badass alpha women here! Me and hubs like to wrestle and it starts with me jumping him and ends with me on my back, totally helpless! Maybe I should up my gym game - though i do love where I end up :-)

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  79. I am a brown belt in jiu jitsu, so unless I date another guy who either knows bjj or is just very, very big and strong, i am usually winning any sort of tussle. I'd say 1 out of 4 guys I date gets really weirdly defensive about this when that becomes clear. For the rest, it's a big turn on.

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  80. Nothing makes my husband hornier than watching me workout, espcially my legs, feeling my muscles when they are firm and then when we play wrestle and I can trap him with them. This thread is really helpful for me because i see others like it. I do see sites out there in the porn world but here, people seem "real". I have fun with it and really, get turned on bossing him around. I am also happy to be able to turn him on. All he wants to do is please me as part of it. So this is a great little secret but it is nice to have a place where others share. Thanks.

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  81. My husband also likes to watch me workout. It used to make me uncomfortable bc I am shy and not the type to show my body off. I realized that I am lucky though, to still turn him on (and vice versa) and that he gets hard from something so benign (a lot of my girlfriends get much weirder requests). So i embraced it and we've had the best sex since. I get turned on by getting him so aroused. I seem to also be a bit of a closet dom, since he likes to get bossed around when we do this and it gets me off. It must overlap with the fetish on this blog post because it also turned into me squeezing him or getting him into wrestling holds until he gives or services me. Thanks for bringing this world to the light

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