tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4034316966227096922.post1051202697574976721..comments2024-03-28T03:23:14.301-04:00Comments on Bossy Italian Wife : We Need To Talk: I'm Ambivalent About ParenthoodBossy Italian Wifehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07025193860465613156noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4034316966227096922.post-67967316146615787652022-05-17T11:33:12.725-04:002022-05-17T11:33:12.725-04:00replica bags from china free shipping replica bag...<a href="https://thotet89723.blogspot.com/2022/05/this-plan-is-very-easy-and-will-soon.html" rel="nofollow">replica bags from china free shipping</a> <a href="https://thathe43159.blogspot.com/2022/05/this-therapy-also-seeks-to-teach-child.html" rel="nofollow">replica bags online shopping india</a> <a href="https://mcteshe64634.blogspot.com/2022/05/im-uncertain-term-for-this.html" rel="nofollow">replica bags us</a>cesethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15607440795544638718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4034316966227096922.post-31033656216649366522013-04-09T22:05:30.670-04:002013-04-09T22:05:30.670-04:00Yep I completely understand. And there are those w...Yep I completely understand. And there are those who say they will never have children and then oops! They get pregnant and it ends up being the greatest thing that ever happened to them. I think you guys are doing it exactly right. Just because you got married, does not mean you have to instantly start making babies. That's just the way society has taught us is the right way to do it. But I think you guys are living the good life right now, and as long as you're happy, who cares?! :)Emily Forte Felicianohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099729405222699802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4034316966227096922.post-83849555645923650562013-04-09T15:54:08.571-04:002013-04-09T15:54:08.571-04:00It's a great point, Emily. Waiting comes with ...It's a great point, Emily. Waiting comes with pushing back those days that come on the other side of parenting...and that is always in the back of my head, too. I certainly don't think life is over because you have a child, but rather it changes considerably. That is not to say it's good or bad, it's just different. <br /><br />I haven't made any decisions yet about parenthood, and luckily there is plenty of time left to decide. But voicing that I am even thinking about it at all, I have found, is quite controversial. Bossy Italian Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07025193860465613156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4034316966227096922.post-85731971308309614312013-04-09T15:46:46.090-04:002013-04-09T15:46:46.090-04:00For some people, it may be that black and white. F...For some people, it may be that black and white. For me, it isn't. Everyone's lives center around their personal needs, of course, and those are ever changing, whether or not you have children. Thank you for your comment. Bossy Italian Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07025193860465613156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4034316966227096922.post-67645623958629558462013-04-09T15:26:09.816-04:002013-04-09T15:26:09.816-04:00"If you're ambivalent, be ambivalent"..."If you're ambivalent, be ambivalent". <br />NO. If you're ambivalent, don't have kids. Ambivalence means you don't *really* want to do this mommy thing. So don't do it. You say a kid would cramp your lifestyle...you want your freedom. Then don't do it. If you wanted to do it, you would have done it already. Accept that parenthood is just not for you, that you'd rather your life revolve around your personal needs, and move on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4034316966227096922.post-86447447743690540552013-04-09T14:25:38.853-04:002013-04-09T14:25:38.853-04:00I think for me I started at a young age, 19 and it...I think for me I started at a young age, 19 and it was a bit difficult as I was still growing up myself. But eventually my son became more independent and I got my time back. He was our only child for nine years. With the second one, now almost 2, it's definitely harder because I was spoiled with my freedom and now I'm basically starting all over. And I'm pregnant once more! Some people look at me like why am I having all these kids, and they are the same people who asked me for nine years when we were going to have more. At the end of the day, it's my choice and I'm still young in my eyes. These two little ones I have are only 2 years apart and they will grow up together as sisters and best friends, while my son will be off to college. Soon they will be grown in another 10 years and I will have my independence back, at only 40. So I don't think life is over if you decide to have children-it's just put on pause for a while so you can focus on them and give them the best childhood you possibly can. But I respect your decision because God knows I would love to travel and have that freedom. But at the same time, like I said, I don't think that time is too far away from me.Emily Forte Felicianohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099729405222699802noreply@blogger.com